1). Consider another venue.

Yes, the first step to picking up on the street is asking yourself why you want to pick up on the street. It’s the hardest venue, hands down, meaning every other day venue you can imagine is easier. Is there a mall or retail shop nearby? Grocery store? Hell, even a Walmart will be easier.

Street game will be the first venue you want to try, though it really should be the last because of its difficulty level. The only time it’s “easy” is when you’re in a foreign country and can act like a confused tourist.

2). Research a good spot.

For most cities, the best time to do day approaches are Saturday afternoons. In college towns it’s the opposite where weekday afternoons are superior. Use your eyes to determine when you usually see lone women walking around. Pick a street or park that has at least one cute woman walking by every five minutes or so. You don’t want dense squares that are jam packed with people, because the force of the crowd will make a conversation uncomfortable for her.

Once you find a good spot, camp out in a discreet area and wait for an attractive women to walk by. This method is far easier than walking around aimlessly in the hopes of finding women. Find a good spot in your city and master it.

3). When a cute girl walks by, follow her until she hits a Don’t Walk signal.

This may take a few blocks of stalking. The logic behind this method, especially for you day game newbs, is to talk to girls who are already stopped because it has a higher chance of leading to conversation than trying to stop them while in movement. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to stop girls, but it will be harder, especially if she’s walking fast.

If you’re smart, you’ll choose to spit “lazy street game” by finding a bench next to a sidewalk. In that case just open her as she walks by while you’re seated enjoying a Big Gulp. This is my preferred method for both the street and mall.

4). Ask her where you can find a pet shop.

I’ve tried a couple dozen of street openers and this one is the best. It’s weird, different, and takes some brainpower to answer, forcing the girl to snap out of whatever she’s thinking about to digest your question. Most often the girl will say “No, sorry.” This is when you step up to the plate and unleash mountains of ramble.

5). Ramble until you can ramble no more.

Tell her how hard it is to find a pet shop. Give her a reason why you’re looking for one (to buy some fish, a cat, or a dog). Give a reason why you asked her instead of someone else (“you look like an animal person”).

For two tough minutes, you will be talking about nothing but pets and pet stores, making it up as you go along, warming up the girl in the process for a more personal chat. Pet ramble is necessary to get her into a social mood where she is more likely to show interest in what comes next.

6). Drop big bait.

Your first big bait will be, “When I was in blah, it was easy to find pet shops. But here it’s very difficult.” If she doesn’t mind that statement, give off another sentence or two about the place you were in and how it’s different. Make general comparisons between cities and use what she gives you to continue the conversation. If you’re a foreigner, mention how you “just moved” to the city and are trying to “learn the local culture.”

7). If you stall, hit her with the “don’t seem like” line.

I guarantee you will stall because on the street girls don’t give you much to work with. If you hit a speed bump after two minutes of pet shop conversation and after dropping your first piece of big bait, say, “By the way, you don’t seem like you’re from here.” Now you can “guess” where she’s from based on something she’s wearing, her accent, or the style of her hair. Does she ask you where your from, or at least show some interest?

Great, then go from there. But after all this if she doesn’t help you with the conversation, then she’ll probably end it soon.

8). Get her number.

If you successfully got out of pet shop talk, she’s standing there with a half-smile on her face, and she asked you a personal question, you’re in the clear to get her number. Exchange information like age and name, ask her where she usually hangs out, then suggest a drink meetup. While you can get a street number after only five minutes, you want to push towards at least 10 minutes if you want a date out of it.

This means approaching girls who are at least walking slow and in no rush to get anywhere. If she’s really into you, tell her you were about to grab a smoothie and if she wants to join you.

So these were my 8 secrets on street approach from “HEY TO LAY” and if you want to know exactly how I approach hot women and get them attracted to me then read my adventure report.

Additional Tip:

The secret is to abandon the idea of a magic “opener.” The words are the least important part. It’s the vibe that precedes them. An alpha male doesn’t ask for attention; his energy quietly commands it. He walks with purpose, his posture open and relaxed, his gaze aware but not predatory. He’s already having a good day, and his approach is an invitation to share in it, not a request to fix a bad one.

The Anatomy of an Approach

The entire interaction can be broken down into three critical phases, each with a distinct purpose:

The opener should be situational, witty, and low-pressure. Comment on a book she’s holding, the absurdity of the city, or her unique style. It’s not a pickup line; it’s a human being acknowledging another human being with a dash of charm. As the saying goes, “A man who asks an interesting question is far more memorable than a man who gives a canned compliment.”

If she responds positively, you enter The Hook. This is where conversation flows. Ask open-ended questions. Listen to her answers. The alpha isn’t proving his value; he’s discerning hers. He’s authentic, not a performing seal. He’s screening her as much as she is him.

The close is not a fumbled request for a number. It’s a confident, assumptive transition. The alpha presumes the fun will continue. “This conversation is too good for a sidewalk. Let’s grab a coffee right now at that place over there.” It’s specific, direct, and frames the next step as an obvious progression of a good thing.

Ultimately, the secret isn’t a technique hidden in a dusty manuscript. It’s confidence worn lightly, respect given freely, and the self-amusement to handle rejection with a graceful smile. The true alpha knows that the win isn’t the “lay,” but the ability to fearlessly create a moment of genuine connection, wherever he stands.

Warning: If you’re not comfortable with making women wet and drop their panties for you right of the bat then don’t read this article.

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