Do you want to attract the love of your life? You wish you could attract a specific person? Do you want to get your ex back? The Law of Attraction for Love has the answer. Using this method of changing your mindset, you can actually change the circumstances of your life. Whether you’re hoping to find your soulmate, get a special someone to notice you, or even rekindle an old flame.
This article is sure to work for anyone with an open mind and heart. It’s time to become your best self, and in the process, attract the one who is best for you.
But before decoding everything let’s know what attracts the woman in men.
It’s true that we guys are attracted to beautiful, young women. But women?
They want something entirely different. Want a man—but not just any man.
They want one who is confident, powerful, socially savvy, and high in status.
The reason for this is rooted in evolutionary biology.
Over thousands of years men and women developed preferences for sexual partners based on criteria that allowed for the successful rearing of future generations.
While men evolved the desire for women with big breasts, clear skin, and beautiful smiles—signs of fertility and health that would increase the likelihood of successful childrearing or offsprings—
But women evolved differently: they developed a preference for men who would be able to protect their offspring and provide for them in an often dangerous and uncertain world.
Because of the tribal context in which this development occurred, women evolved to feel attraction for men of high status.
Women are instinctually attracted to men with higher status. So what exactly is status?
Well, in any group of guys, there is a hierarchal formation, and a man’s status is where he falls in that ranking. On top is the leader—the alpha male, [ who study the animal world ].
He is the person in the group who is the most important. The one who exhibits the most influence upon others. He is the one who calls the shots.
Being the leader is not an easy job. He has to make tough decisions not only for himself but for the group as a whole, and he must shoulder the responsibility of whatever happens as a result of his decisions and actions.
To trigger a social response in women, we’ve got to let them know that we are this special type of high-status male. Our job would be incredibly easy if we could just say, “Hey, I’m the leader!” or “Hey, I’m an alpha male!” But as I’m sure you know, this simply doesn’t work.
In the absence of that sort of explicit statement, women wanting to determine what kind of man you are instead watch your behavior, looking for subtle cues that indicate where you stand in this world.
Thus, to become attractive, you must examine the behavior of highly attractive males and
then demonstrate it yourself. Men who do this become very attractive to women.
I’m all trying to make you understand human behavior, psychology, and biology to consciously change the ways in which you act to become a more powerful, confident, and attractive version of who you already are.
A high status man is better able to secure a good future for her and her offspring. She is naturally attracted to him even if he hasn’t talked to her yet.
No matter what you’re gender is, do not look at other men or women as competition. Rather look at them as people who have problems, who have desires, fears, hopes, insecurities and be a leader amongst them by befriending the leaders of that group.
You’re reality is bigger anyway, you don’t need to fear loss and nor do you fear losing any popularity as such because you are a Creator of energy, can easily develop new groups, can easily access new resources can also create his or her own resources. Avoid competing and instead work on the Creative Plane.
Don’t compete to impress women. Don’t compete to impress men.
Men that have status are non-reactive. They don’t freak out when something disturbs the peace. The leader is supposed to protect the group so if you freak out, it shows you are not suited for the position.
Stay calm, be present, and handle the situation. Women will test you in this quality. She will poke you and press your hot buttons to see if you can stay grounded and keep your cool.
Walk tall, take up space and have open body language. Don’t let people push you around. Walk like you own the place. Most people have mediocre body language, so when you stand erect, with your shoulders back, chest out, and head high, people notice.
Bad body language will also demote you of leadership status. Don’t fidget or move excessively. Move your body slow and with purpose.
If you are unable to hold eye contact with people, you will be demoted from the high status position. Strong eye contact is a sign of power. Take it further by blinking less. A man that doesn’t blink while talking conveys power.
Some guys get into “eye staring contests” to see who looks away first. This is child’s play. It demonstrates you have something to prove.
A high status man has high standards for himself and everyone in his life. Be picky about the people you let into your life, including the girls you date. A king is not going make any girl his queen. He is going to CHOOSE THE ABSOLUTE BEST.
That is why it is important to QUALIFY every girl and when you do this she will automatically see you as high status. Qualify men as well before you bring them into your inner circle. High status men have high standards.
People are most attracted to smiles and laughter. When you’re having a good time, others notice and want to be with you. So do the things that make you happy…whether it’s watching a funny movie or going to your favorite park to eat lunch.
Enjoy your life. The more fun and joy you have, the faster you can exhibit higher status.
High status men give value, they don’t take value. These people have so much greatness in their life, these want to share with everyone. They don’t make people feel bad about themselves.
They make people feel inspired, proud, and beautiful. Give and you shall receive.
Studies have shown that people in a suit are automatically perceived as an authority versus a person who is wearing normal clothes.
Now, I do not mean wear a suit wherever you go, however, dress sharp. If you look like a powerful leader you will not only feel like one, but people will see you as one.
You don’t need to kiss ass. You need to increase your knowledge base, your specialized skill and see how you can bring value to table, with mutual benefit.
In applying the above, you don’t need to suck up to people.
Do not be apologetic about your sexuality, about your goals, about your dream but rather be proud of who you are.
Only aplogise if you feel you was in error, did something wrong. In that, of course, apologise. Be humble in that part to apologise.
If you act weird or awkward during social situations, you will automatically demote yourself from a high status position. It is very important not to get flustered or nervous during interactions.
You must know how to talk to people. Before you can lead, you must learn how to finesse your way through social situations.
The cool thing is you don’t need to be naturally funny, witty or clever. You just need to be comfortable in social settings.
Don’t be the insecure guy standing against the wall watching everyone else have a good time. Just take a deep breath, get grounded and join in on the fun.
Sharing too much personal information and clucking like a hen diminishes you.
To manifest a specific person, the Law of Attraction for Love works by focusing on you. It isn’t about the other person. It’s about you.
Sometimes this can be the hardest part of the Law of Attraction to grasp because when there’s a person we love or are attracted to, he/she is all we can think about. We think the solution is in using the Law of Attraction to get the person to love us or notice us.
But the Law of Attraction is about you – your thoughts, your feelings, and your vibration.
So how do you focus on yourself so that the Law of Attraction can bring you a specific person?
Realize the great person that you are and that it doesn’t matter what others think about you. You don’t have to make someone else like you or love you because you already love yourself.
Self-confidence is irresistible and will attract people to you.
Let go of all your negative thoughts….such as “it’s hard to find anyone,” “why don’t they see how good I am,” and “no one will ever love me.”
You have a lot of great qualities that make you so worthy of anyone’s love and attention.
Others do notice you and appreciate you. There is love all around you. Let it in. When you let it in and focus on the positive, you change your vibration and open a door for the Law of Attraction for love to bring you your specific person.
The scariest thing about love is opening yourself up to it. When you open yourself, there’s a chance you might get hurt. If you’re afraid of getting hurt, you might unconsciously be preventing someone from getting as close to you as you want.
Be willing to take the risk and fully open yourself to love. You will manifest the love you want.
Focus on the good things about the specific person you want the Law of Attraction to bring you. Look for something to appreciate.
This can be tough if there are negative feelings between the two of you, and you might only be able to find one thing in the beginning, but if you keep working at it, it will get easier.
If you’re in a relationship with the person already, you should start to see his/her behavior change and things start improving between the two of you.
Be happy for what you have. Forget about the things that you are wanting. Once you can be happy in the moment, the things you want will start falling in place, including your love life.
This is one of the hardest parts of the Law of Attraction for love when attracting a specific person. You know you want to be with him/her, but now you’re being told you need to be willing to lose them. Crazy, right?
But it’s only when you are okay with not being with them, that you open the path for the Law of Attraction to attract your specific person to you.
Until you’re okay with not being with him/her, a part of you is resisting and making it impossible for you to have what you want.
This means, according to the Law of Attraction, that until you’re okay with possibly losing him/her, it will be difficult for you to have the relationship you want with him/her. You have to be okay with not having him/her.
I know this isn’t easy. I know how hard it is. It’s why, when working with the Law of Attraction, it’s often best to say, “I want X or something better” or “I want a relationship with my boyfriend or someone better.”
Because what if you could have someone better? What if you could be with someone who didn’t want to spend a day without you, let alone not be able to meet you every few days?
But whatever you decide to do, focus on doing what makes you happy. Don’t worry about how things are with your specific person all the time. Worry about yourself.
Pamper yourself. Take care of yourself Let him/her see what they’re missing. The Law of Attraction will bring you the love you want.
Using the Law of Attraction for love and relationships works whether you believe it will or not. You don’t have to be in a place where you are sure you know how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest love.
You just have to remember that the Law of Attraction is about your thoughts. Like thoughts attract like things.
When using the Law of Attraction for love, you have to stop focusing on what your love life or relationships are like now.
If you focus on how things are now, your thoughts will be filled with what is…and the Law of Attraction will give you matching experiences.
If you think that you’re lonely or all alone in the world, the Law of Attraction will bring you more loneliness.
Frustrated with your love life, the Law of Attraction will bring you more frustration.
and if you think that you’ll never find love, the Law of Attraction will bring you more instances where you don’t have love.
Don’t look at your relationship as it is now, but visualize it and mentally picture how you want it to be.
Do the things you would do if you already had the relationship you want. Go on that vacation you’ve always wanted. Take those cooking classes. Sign-up for a massage course.
These actions are powerful thoughts that will draw more love into your life. Each action is telling the Universe that you aren’t waiting until you’re with someone to do something. After all, if you’re thinking that you’re waiting for someone, you’re telling the Law of Attraction to bring you more waiting…
Throughout all of this, remember to love and respect yourself so that you can attract someone who loves and respects you.
Focus on how wonderful you are. Even if you can just focus on one thing that’s good about you, that’s okay. Keep focusing on it and the Law of Attraction will give you more things that you like about yourself.
And when you manifest your love, or if you have a relationship now that is a struggle…focus on what you appreciate about the other person.
Don’t complain about him or her. It will only give you more things to complain about.
Every day, focus on all the things you like about him…his strengths, his sense of humor, his ability to get things done…
And always remember that love is just a feeling.
You’re the only one who can generate it, but your ability to generate love is unlimited.
Love your life, love yourself and love everything you can.
The more love you send out, the more will come back to you.
Become the person you want to attract.
Take another look at the life partner you designed according to all the key qualities you value. Next, try to think of how you can cultivate those precise traits in yourself. For example, if ambition is on your list, ask yourself how you can work harder to achieve your goals.
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