September 22


15 Sensual Cuddling Secrets – Make any Girl Want to Cuddle and Sleep with You

By Ariel Vagus

September 22, 2019

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Cuddling makes you feel like you are in the cushy arms of heaven. If you’ve been seeing a girl for a while now and are ready to take things to the next level, you’ll need to know how to cuddle with her. Sensual cuddling makes her feel safe in your arms. Sensual cuddling is one of the best means of physical affection; it garners closeness, shows affection, and increases happiness.

Cuddling releases a hormone which reduces stress and anxiety, resulting your mental well being as well. Girls LOVE to cuddle. It brings them comfort and happiness, and it’s just downright warm and snuggly.

And if you do it properly… cuddling can lead to a whole lot more with a girl… (more on that in a minute).

Why Do Women Like Cuddling So Much?

There’s something about human contact that makes us extremely happy to be in the arms of someone else.

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1). Girls Feel Loved.

During cuddling, your woman feels loved and cared for. The warmth of two bodies touching each other makes her feel comfortable. 

2). Makes Them Feel Secure.

Cuddling makes women feel secure. That is the moment when they put aside all their fears and stay in the moment. It also makes you seem more confident in your own skin in a weird way… which is very attractive to women.

3). Relieves Her From Stress.

A woman can forget about everything and melt in the arms of her man during cuddling as it relaxes her and relieves her from stress.

4). They Feel Attractive.

Any woman would love to feel attractive and cuddling does exactly that to a woman. When you passionately bring her into your arms, she feels proud of her beauty for a while.


5). It Releases Oxytocin.

This is the scientific reason. Women feel good when they cuddle simply because feel-good chemicals are released in their brain when they cuddle.

Oxytocin is widely regarded as “the love hormone” since it creates deep feelings of attraction and attachment in women. [1]

So if you can flood a girl’s brain with oxytocin, she’ll become really attracted to you, really quickly.

Not only do they enjoy cuddling, but if you get them to cuddle with you, it means you’re one step closer to closing the deal with them. If you increase your chances of them cuddling with you, then you’re increasing your chances of getting laid.

15 Sensual Cuddling Secrets that make any girl want to sleep with you – 

Girls are not the type of creatures that you can just stick your boner out to and expect that they’re going to want to sit on it (!)

As harsh as that sounds, it’s the truth. Girls need more than that. They need contact and to get warmed up to you first.

And cuddling is the perfect way to do that. This article on how to cuddle with a her the most sensual way is just what you need if you want to take the next step with a special girl and have a sexy night.

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1). Make sure she’s comfortable around you first.

You can’t just expect that some random girl is going to want to come over and cuddle. You have to get to know this girl first and make sure your feelings are mutual beforehand. Ensure that she’s comfortable with being alone with you. I would advise that you take her on a couple of dates before moving things along. Additionally, you’ll want to project strong “Alpha” body language so that she doesn’t think you’re “nervous”–it will help deepen her comfort with you.

2). Get her to come over alone.


Girls like to travel in packs in order to avoid being alone with someone they might not be totally comfortable with. That being said, invite her over for a fun game and movie night, and see if she’ll come alone. Make sure she knows it’s a totally casual evening so she doesn’t have too many reservations about it.

3). Sit really close to her.

Obviously, if you want to know how to cuddle with a girl, you have to start the evening by sitting right next to her. In order to do this, you have to make sure she sits down first so you can position yourself next to her.

This can be done by making a drink first, putting the movie in, grabbing the games, or anything else that ensures that she has to sit on the couch first. It’s a lot harder to scoot close to her when she’s on the opposite side of the couch.

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4). Throw on a suspenseful or even scary movie.

This can seem like it’s out of context, but it can actually mean the difference between close cuddling and you spending a couple hours with your arm draped over her shoulder.

If you pick a scary and suspenseful movie, she’ll look to you for security when she’s too scared. So it will make it a lot easier for you to grab her and cuddle her close when she’s terrified.

5). Turn the thermostat down.

When a girl is cold, she’ll be more likely to cuddle with you in order to warm up. So turn the thermostat down and make sure it’s pretty chilly in there!

6). Give her a cold beverage to drink.

Just like turning the thermostat down will make her colder, so will giving her something cold to drink. If you have both of these going for you, she’ll be freezing and WANT you to cuddle up to her in order to warm up.

7). Pick the right time to put your arm around her.

If you’ve accomplished the above two tips, this opportunity should come when she mentions how cold she is. Another great moment to put your arm around her is when there’s a frightening part in the movie that made her jump.

8). Pull her into you.

Now that you have your arm around her, settle into the couch and pull her closer to you so she’s resting against you. This will not only be more comfortable for the both of you, but you’re initiating a lot of physical contact.

9). At this point, gauge her reaction.

Did she snuggle into you easily or did she stiffen and stay seated upright? Her comfort is the one thing that will make her want to move to the next step. And if she’s feeling a little stiff, then chances are she’s not comfortable with the situation, and she’ll be less likely to give it up to you.

If she seems a little nervous, relax and give her some space to back away. Once she gets comfortable, she’ll cuddle into you. And then you can proceed with making the next move.

10). Compliment her.

Don’t just tell her that she looks beautiful. While this is always something girls love to hear, it doesn’t make much sense after pulling her into you. Say something along the lines of how great she smells. This will put the idea in her head that you’re really into her, and it’ll instill more trust in her for you.

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11). Lean to the side and transition into laying down.

Of all the steps involved in how to cuddle with her, this one is pretty crucial if you want to get thing more stuffs. Once she has leaned into you and is practically putting all her weight against you, lean into a position that is more like laying down. This should leave her mostly on top of you while you’re under her.


12). Get both of your hands on her and work some magic.

By now you should be able to have both of your hands brush against her body in different areas. Giving her light massages and running your hands down her arms is a great way to get her to relax and feel good. If she likes your touch on her skin, she’ll start thinking about what’s to come.

13). Kiss her.

If everything has worked well thus far, you’re now ready to plant one on her. If you’ve been on a couple of dates with her prior to this and have already kissed her, this part will be easy.

But if you haven’t kissed her yet, it could be a bit harder. If you look at her to talk to her and she holds your gaze for a while – and even glances down at your lips – she wants you to kiss her. So make your move!

14). Move so you’re laying on top of her.

Now that you know how to cuddle with a girl up to this point, the next step is to lay on top of her. And if you were in the clear to kiss her, then keep doing that for a while until you two are completely making out. This should give you the opportunity to flip on top of her and take control with how things go for the night.

15). Let the night take you to where it shall.

If you’re making out on top of her, then chances are, she’s really into it – and you. Now you can make different moves that suggest your intentions. And if she doesn’t stop you, you have made it.

You have found a cuddling companion for life who loves all your cuddling positions. You’re now a cuddling god who every girl wants to cuddle with and sleep with.

Health Benefits of Cuddling

It makes you feel so good. But did you know there’s actually a scientific reason for that? Research says there’s more to cuddling than just feeling good.

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1). Good for your immune system.

Cuddling releases three special hormones called serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin. These are ‘feel-good’ hormones that boost your immunity to help fight infection. And if you think of it, cuddling sounds way better than loading up on vitamin C. If you’re sick the next time, remember it’s because you’re not cuddling enough!

2). Cuddling relieves pain and lethargy.

Just as it boosts your immune system, cuddling, upon releasing oxytocin, decreases your pain levels. What do you do when your muscles start aching? Give a warm rub and massage, right? If a simple touch like that can release enough oxytocin to make you feel better, imagine the relief cuddling can give!

Oxytocin helps relax our muscles quickly which results in reduced muscle pain. Cuddling also makes us less anxious, allowing us to get better sleep at night and wake up feeling more refreshed and ready to take on the day!

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3). Lowers stress and blood pressure.

The moment you cuddle or make skin-to-skin contact, your brain tells your adrenal glands to release less of a stress hormone called cortisol. This cut back on cortisol production results in reduced stress and subsequently, a more moderate blood pressure.

4). Lowers risk of heart disease.

The less stressed you are the more happy your heart is. What a daily cuddle can do to your heart is amazing. It keeps check on all the other factors that contribute to heart disease – high blood pressure, stress and anxiety, making your body healthier.

5). Reduces social anxiety.

Another benefit of cuddling is it makes us less anxious, which in turn helps us get better sleep at night and make our morning refreshing and full of life.

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6). Makes you feel good.

Oxytocin is the hormone responsible for everything from making you feel good to helping you feel healthy. When your body is blessed with all that goodness you are bound to get your mood boosted which is crucial to help curb depression. Oxytocin, along with dopamine and serotonin are the crucial elements that make cuddling incredibly healthy.

7). Improves your sex life.

According to the Archives of Sexual Behavior study, couples that cuddle after sex were found to be more satisfied and happy with their sex lives than couples who don’t.

8). It Helps You Sleep Better.

When you’re not so anxious, you’re more likely to snooze at a reasonable hour, says Terri Orbuch, Ph.D., author of Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.

9). Cuddling helps deepen your relationships.

Communication is one of the most important elements in a relationship, but we often tend to forget how effective and meaningful a simple touch can be. Every day we bring all the stress from work to home, not realizing how much negative toll on your relationship.

Instead, imagine coming home and cuddling with your partner for even ten minutes a day. This brief break from the stress of everyday life will not only give you all the benefits listed, but will also strengthen your relationship. You’ll be taking time to focus solely on your partner and what you feel for them.

How to Go From Cuddling to Much, MUCH More…

The Secret to cuddle with her the most sensual way is by making her comfortable around you.

The more she’ll be comfortable the more she’ll feel safe and secure in your arms. And what better way to make her feel safe and secure in your arms other than cuddling?

Cuddling works in your favor, but always remember we humans have natural tendency to sense the affection you show and even if you really mean it or not.

People can sense the intensity of your love but they won’t let you know as they love you and they don’t want to give you any discomfort.

Cuddling radiates the warmth and comfort and it feels so good…

But there’s still one more question left to answer:

How do you go from cuddling with a girl you’re into… to making out with her… slipping off her panties… and having sex?

I used to think this took a lot of “game” to do–a lot of smooth talking… compliments… and even “telling her what she wants to hear”…

But in reality? None of that stuff works very well. And most girls can smell it like cheap cologne.

Here’s what really works:

It’s this combination of really subtle, “under the radar” touches from my mentor, Magic.

Magic is older… he’s balding… he’s got more than a few extra pounds… and a thick Indian accent that few women can even understand…

But you know what? He’s an absolute expert at taking girls who he’s friends with… and turning them into sexual partners.

And if you’re already cuddling with a girl you’re into… then these under-the-radar touch tricks can get you from cuddling to having sex, all by themselves.

No dumb “lines” or corny “routines” needed… just touch her here… and then here… and finally here

And she’ll be yours.

Magic made a short, free video showing you what these touches are… the exact right order to use them in to unlock her panties… and even him using them to take a hot girl home from the beach one day…

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[This post was last updated by Your Alpha Dude on May 27, 2020]


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  • short term loans no credit check low interest says:

    You make better points than the usual…

  • This is pretty gross- “she’s more likely to give it up to you” ?? Wow dude. And “if she doesn’t stop you…” jeez who wrote this? Bill Cosby?

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