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How To Talk to Girls And Attract Them?

By Ariel Vagus

August 4, 2019


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Are you afraid to talk to girls and make that first impression? Do you start to sweat when it comes to girls and how to talk to them? Are you a rookie who’s too inexperienced and can’t talk fluently with girls? Don’t worry because after reading this article all your problems will be solved and if you use this knowledge which i’m about to provide you with the exact same measures then success is GUARANTEED.

Now before we go in depth i would like to let you know some of the pre-requisites of talking to girls and attracting them with your charm –

1. BODY LANGUAGE

Body language is either going to make or break your conversations. Make sure to stand tall with open, relaxed, confident body language. If you are slouching or have
closed-off body language then what you say is unlikely to work.You must give exuberant vibes of calmness and coolness to her whenever you decide to talk to her.

REMEMBER : A girl will be as calm and as cool when talking as you are. That is if you’re nervous then she’ll be nervous and if you’re calm she’ll be calm and more open.

2. VOICE TONALITY

Make sure to speak slowly, articulating what you are saying with long pauses and a deep tonality. Speaking fast will make you appear nervous, while pausing makes you

appear more confident, draws her in and makes her more interested. And before talking also do some tongue twisters to let the juices flowing from your mouth to make sure you don’t slouch.

Example of tongue twisters- She sells the sea shells in the sea shore.
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck etc….

3. EYE CONTACT

If you constantly look down you will appear scared and a woman cannot be attracted to a man who is afraid of her. Keep at least 80 – 90% eye contact throughout the interaction. It’s okay to look away sometimes as to not appear overly interested or invested. However, I recommend 100% eye contact during the opener.

4. Don’t smile too much as it’s self seeking and makes you a man with an agenda. Make your smile valuable and make them work for it.During the first time i suggest looking them directly in the eye, talk to them with deep long pauses and then give a slow infectious smile.

Coming back to the main topic.

How to talk to girls and attract them?

Let me make one thing absolutely clear for you that if you’re worried about your first words then fear not, because 80 percent of your listener’s impression has nothing to do with your words anyway. Almost anything you say at first is fine. No matter how prosaic your words, an empathetic mood, a positive demeanor, and passionate delivery make you sound exciting. But still i’ll give you some conversation starters to break the ice-

1). “Hi, I’m just meeting new people today. I thought you might be interesting to talk to. What’s your name?” If it’s a fairly common name, you say: “That’s really pretty. It seems to suit you. Did your mother pick that name?” If it’s a unique name, you say: “Wow, that’s interesting. What’s the story behind that?”

2). “Hi, my name is Ariel. I saw you from a distance and thought that you’re really cute.What’s your name?” You can add the above add ons here too. They always work to keep the conversation going ;}

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Now to take things further i don’t want you the talk the old boring stuffs like-

How are you? What do you do? blah blah blah …..bullshit….all this is boring AF {Please mind my language}

All this talk bores her to death and she promises herself that she’ll never see you again. No Hell No!!!.

First of all you need to understand the mindset of girls and what they want from us men….

Fun and Space.,

Yup, that’s it.

They want a guy who could make their experience of talking a fun and memorable one and at the same time don’t be too clingy and respect their space. Since we have gotten that myth out of our minds let’s find out what actually to talk to girls to take the conversation further and make it interesting for her-

First of all ask open-ended questions.Open-ended questions are usually better than simple “yes-or-no” questions because there’s more you can say. For example, “Do you like comedy movies?” will likely garner a one-word response, whereas “What kind of movies do you like?” will probably get a longer, more specific response and make it easier to continue the conversation.

Now one mistake that guys almost always make is talk logical stuff.And it makes me sick. { I’m already getting a fever just thinking about it}

Ask emotionally charged questions that get her to talk about motivations and emotions.

So what are you doing to change the world? { Just for extra knowledge – Never ask what work you do as it’s boring,dull and kills the mood.}
Notice her answers and try to find out her aims,ambitions and joys {AAJ} as this will be the focal point of all your conversations in the future.

And if she asks what do you do? Never, ever, unfairly challenge their powers of imagination with a one-word answer. Learn some engaging facts about your job and work so that she could munch on it. For example if someone asks me what i do? I won’t directly say that I’m a relationship coach and all that. I’ll say – I help men unleash their masculinity and make the lives of ladies much more interesting and fun.

So if you won the lottery and could do any work you wanted, what would it be? Again try to know her AAJ here.

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If you had a superpower what would it be? You can ask all these interesting questions and much more to keep her interested.

You can get my whole 50 Break the ice Conversation hacks by subscribing to my newsletter.

One bonus and funny question you can ask-
I always wonder why don’t harry just kill valdemort with a gun? I mean it would save the production house 8 yrs of getting to conclusion.

Always Remember don’t try to connect too fast with a girl as it makes her aloof from you. First tease then connect. One step forward , two steps back. Give her space and time.

And if you keep doing the same thing over and over again it will lose effect. For example, if you tease her three times in a row she might think you are being mean. So make sure to mix in normal, getting-to-know-her type conversation as well.

Keep mixing it up to garner the result you want.

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