What do you need to be a sex god? Good height, gorgeous looks, beastly abs, hung c*ck and an insanely animalistic energy in you?
Well I’m average heighted, good looking, but not a beast. I have an average c*ck, but i’m not a superstar. Nor do i have an animalistic energy [ sometimes, mostly not ;] But everyday i end up with 2 or more hot women in my bed and i make sure that i give them multiple orgasms every time.
And this article is written exactly for average men like me, who can unleash their inner masculinity and become an amazing lover in bed as well. Yes, you read it. I’m a lover, I love women, . I celebrate them and i adore them for the passion and energy that they bring in my life.
And it’s due to their love and compassion for me that i’m writing this article to help you as well. Women are born to be loved and cherished. And this is going to be the focal point of everything that i’ll teach you here.
[ You can read my article on masculinity as well. It was my honest attempt to make people understand the real meaning of masculinity and so far it has gotten a lot of positive responses from others. ]
This article is about the “Art Of Sex” and how you can f*ck women that they literally pass out of pleasure, she enjoys it so much that she keeps asking you for more every other day and is willing to fulfill all your fantasies. Read it again, i wrote she will eagerly want to fulfill your fantasies, not be forced to do. This means, you don’t even need to be dominant or brutal with her.
>> Sex should be consensual
It is paramount that to have a multi orgasmic, earth wrenching, jaw clawing, knee breaking sex, you two must be in consent. Both of you or more people involved should be absolutely aware of it and agree to whatever you guys want to happen. This means even if you want to do anal [ it’s great, i love it ] it should be with her consent. And both of you should be involved and held responsible equally for it.
When it’s fully consensual then your woman is like a butterfly. She will love it, moan the heck out and go all in with you in this pleasuring journey of the both of you.
But a woman can only be your butterfly if you’re a giver first. You must give, in order to receive. Or give and you shall receive. You must make your woman feel special and make her feel that you would give up everything just to be with her, in that moment, in that hour. When you’re in that room with her, it should be like you’re Picasso and you’re working on your art [ sex in your case ] and nothing else should matter to you.
>> CONFIDENCE: The pre-requisite
Everything you do requires confidence. So, how could sex not need it? Can you imagine giving a woman ultimate pleasure without being confident in your abilities to pleasure her? Confidence is the ability to give other people, without breaking your peace of mind, because you know you can still create more or have more.
That’s how much you trust in your abilities. And confidence in bed means allowing your woman to bask in her full glory, and you feeling comfortable and in your core, loving, pleasuring her and getting pleasured as well.
[ For more on confidence and to make sure that you have got a full grasp on it, check out my full article on Confidence. I’m sure it’ll be worth your time. It took a lot of time and research to write this article. So, hopefully you’ll learn something from this as well ]
>> The Mindset
It’s all in the mind. Aye…
Your state of mind can make or break any life situation. Then how would it not in bed?
The wrong kind of mindset is when you are having sex just for your pleasure or when you are too worried about giving your woman an orgasm. Both are wrong. This approach leads you into a perfectionist mode where you want all the perfect strokes and techniques to be applied. It makes you go out there and buy books on the perfect techniques. Or worse yet, go to seminars about hypnosis and sex. [ yup, it’s there. And people actually go.]
What i want you to know deep inside from now on is that – It’s already there. Where else are you trying to find it? It’s inside you. You already can give your woman a perfect orgasm, you just need a bit of tweak here and there. But it’s easy. You need not to worry yet [ or worse, get yourself some silicons. ]
Don’t create so much stress or pressure because your woman can feel it. They feel what their man feels. So, if you’re tensed, she’ll also get tensed and won’t enjoy sex. Then how in this world will she orgasm?
The only solution to this is to try not to think about orgasm at all. Just give her pleasure and make sure both of you are feeling good.
It’s very hard to buildup for a woman. Unlike we men. For them it’s a process and that’s what we men don’t understand. We move too fast, too soon. For us it’s easy to unload the jizz. But, women on the other hand need a slow build up to come to a point of orgasm. And that task mostly lies on her man, not her.
>> Foreplay to unleash her Carnal Desires
Foreplay is all about letting her relax, by being physical with her and letting her feel sensations. It’s starting point of all the build up. It’s a lot of fun and you are also going to enjoy it a lot. But you need to make sure that you control yourself here, because after all this build up you can also give in. It’s good but first your woman also needs to be in the right place before you give in.
The Art of Compliments
Compliment your woman often, as if she’s your treasure and mean it all. Cuddle her up, tell her your stories, your dreams, your future projections with her, tell her what you would love doing with her all your life, nurture her, kiss her even when she sleeps. Wake her by licking her, and do it then and there [ trust me, morning sex is awesome. You gotta try it at least once ].
The Art of Kissing
Kissing is insanely important for a woman. Let me state it one more time to get it down your head – Kissing is in-f*ckin-sanely important for a woman.
Most rookie advisors will teach you, to just be dominant, hold her tightly, and lunge your face forward. Like you’re eating an apple. Then push your tongue down her throat, so that you could get a piece of her last eaten meal [ ok,, maybe i exaggerated here.. a bit ]
First of all, different women, love different types of kisses. So, i’m not going to advise you, to follow one practice. I advise you to implement on the go. Look for signs of what’s working on her, what’s making her wet, what’s making her hot, and then do more of that.
Some women like soft kisses, some like hard, dominant ones, so what i do is at the beginning i do a bit of both, go back and forth and i look for signs from her body, what’s working more on her, and then i do more of that with her.
REMEMBER : Let her respond as well. She also needs to be invested in it. Or else there’s no point of it at all.
While you’re doing all this, remember to breathe. If you don’t do that it won’t flow naturally and you’ll make her feel uncomfortable. Breathe and let her breathe as well.
Now, at the end don’t just kiss on the lip. When you’re kissing, go from her mouth to her ears, then to her neck, nibble her neck, lick it a bit, and come back to her lips. You can even bite it if she likes it.
This was a small but effective guide on kissing. You can even read a full guide just fully based on kissing a girl. Read it here. And make sure that you apply those tips. I have wrote that down from years of my experience of doing it 😉
Teasing and creating anticipation is a very powerful and effective method to build up that energy, that aura which women need. All of the techniques and how To’s i’m teaching here is also very important but this is like a universal truth about great sex. Tension is how you make her go crazy for you and get her wet.
This is what gets her aroused like crazy and gives her a great experience that later leads her to having great orgasms.
The key to tension is to tease her and make her beg for it [ with her body, but if she uses words then even better ]. You do this by focusing in the areas around the “spot” before you do anything on the “spot”.
Rub her inner things, legs, kiss it, touch her a** and hips, but don’t touch her vagina or main sexual spots yet. She wants you to make the move and get to the main parts, but that’s what we won’t do. This is creating a tension inside her, a build-up and she would want it to be released.
All this is creating a lot of oxytocin inside her and she’s getting immense pleasure. Now, it’s time to start making moves towards the “spot”.
Stimulating the G – Spot
Before you put your thang into her thing, you must properly make sure that she’s wet and ready.
My favorite way of doing this is to make her go on her back, put some lube or saliva on my hand and insert three fingers inside her p*ssy. Try to reach as far as you can and massage it. This will relax her as well, and make her release her juices. Then look for a puffy spongy spot inside her p*ssy. Keep looking for it, and keep massaging her. You can use your other hand as well, to rub her clit, for extra fun.
If you got it right she will start moaning, if not, keep searching for it, sooner rather than later you’ll find it.
Tell her to pee
Not on your mouth [ lmao… ] What i have experienced in all these years,, that after all this build up and arousal, the woman wants to release some tension. After all orgasm is all about releasing tension. But if you try to go ahead and f*ck after stimulating her G spot then chances are she will not be truly free that time.
This happens because G spot stimulations are very arousing and makes a woman want to urinate. [ If she is very comfortable with you, she’ll urinate in front of you, when you’ll be fingering her… this is also called squirting. ] Urinating will help her let go completely and she’ll be again back to focusing on the sex.
Later, you can teach her or coach her [ if you like squirting women ] by creating communication lines, that whenever she feels like peeing, she doesn’t need to go to the bathroom, no need to feel so stressed. If she feels like it, just release it here only. Tell her to push through her fears and let go of whatever is holding her back. Just let go and have fun.
>> Making her Orgasm
Okay, now we are into the most important and the hardest part. It’s very important that before trying to do this, you follow the above steps with your woman, as the better the build up, the easier it will be to make her orgasm and the more she will orgasm.
Let’s get a very important truth out of the way. According to a survey in USA, around 83% of women don’t get an orgasm from intercourse. And it’s not because of the size of the penis of men in US is insufficient. The G Spot of a woman is only 1.5 to 2 inches away from the entrance of her vagina. So, even if you got a 2 inch penis and know how to use it you can give her an orgasm.
But for that you must first learn how to give her clitoral orgasms and G spot orgasms by Oral.
So, in this section first of all we’ll discuss how to give her a clitoral orgasm and then G-spot orgasm and then finally get to some techniques and methods for intercourse.
The clitoris is the most sensitive and responsive area of a woman. It’s the easiest area to give an orgasm as well. So, i prefer starting off from there only. And another benefit of clitoral orgasm is it stimulates the G spot and gets it ready as well.
You should follow the above steps of foreplay as it makes the woman aroused already. Now, the best way to stimulate a clitoris is through the tongue. But don’t just go vigorously at it. The clitoris is a very sensitive and tricky place, and you might just turn your woman off, if you don’t take precautions.
Let the games begin –
– First of all, start off with wet kisses on her labia majora, from the top to bottom. Make it all wet.
– Do it on both the sides. Make sure that its all wet.
– Then do the same, in the labia minora. [ these two portions are not that sensitive, but it build tension which is good. ]
– Now, give long deep kisses and cover up the whole part. As if you’re giving her a deep french kiss, just on her vaginal region.
– Now place your tongue on the base of her vagina and lick upwards.
– Move up to the clitoral hood, and make sure you’re applying pressure on the clitoral shaft.
– Now move down backwards.
– Make sure that you’re licking inside the head and not just on the upper area. That’s not going to help you much.
– Do it for at least 5 minutes.
– Lick her half – way in a vertical path and then full in a horizontal path, then do the opposite. Lick her full on the vertical and half – way on the horizontal.
– While you’re licking with your tongue, use your hands as well.
– Keep changing speeds and rhythm. Once you have done it rightly, she’ll start to squirm. This means she’s about to orgasm, but you don’t stop. You keep doing it until it is fully done.
– Once her clitoral orgasm is finished then you move on to her G spot.
G – Spot Orgasm
Once you have given her a clitoral orgasm, she has become much more receptive and her G spot is also much more sensitive now.
So, you insert your finger and gently start stroking her.
My favorite position for this is lying beside her, as this gives me an opportunity to kiss her as well.
G Spot stimulation is like a roller coaster. Slow, light, fast, pressure, repeat.
So, lets see how to give her G spot Orgasms –
– Start with a come hither motion.
– Then after 2-3 minutes, move your fingers in a circular motion, on the spongy part.
– Then do some quick up and down motions with your hands. It should be done simultaneously with the come hither motion for maximum effectiveness. This means that your fingers should be doing come hither motion but your hands should be doing up and down motions.
– If she hasn’t gotten orgasm, then go back and keep repeating the process until she does.
Orgasm Through Intercourse
Hopefully if you apply all my tricks and techniques you would have already given her multiple orgasms. But now its time for the mating of two souls. Its time that you also took some pleasure and gave her the ultimate pleasure of your penis.
There are basically three main positions for intercourse. The others have originated and modernized from these. They are – Missionary, Doggy style and Woman on Top or riding.When you’re doing missionary you’re on her top and she’s under you. It is a good position to start with and it build intimacy.In doggy style the woman is laid on all fours and you have sex with her from behind. It’s good as it unleashes both of your primal instincts.And in woman on top she will be on top and take charge. She can even do hand rub on her clitoris for pleasure. Most women do this, but i don’t let my women do this at all, as its bad for her. If she learns to pleasure herself from her hand and that too with the clitoris, then it will be very difficult for her to fully enjoy proper intercourse. So, i don’t let them touch themselves. At least not in my presence.
Now, during intercourse be sure that you talk dirty with her as it will arouse her more and it will also distract you from ejaculating too early.
Some of my favorite methods for intercourse –
– Taoist Thrusting
It is probably my favorite one. It originated from the taoists. Hence, the name.
In this method, you enter her, slowly slide all the way in, then pull almost all the way out, and stop. Count 9 short strokes of an inch and a half penetration, then one long stroke. Then count 8 short and two long. and then 7 and three, and so on, until you do 1 short and 9 long. Then start over again.
It creates a lot of tension and it makes her feel like she’s on a roller coaster ride because of the unpredictability of it.
– Anal Sex
It is one of those things for men, that they just need to do once in their lives, because after that there’s no going back. If you give your woman multiple orgasms then she’ll have no problems in doing anal with you. It is so exciting because it’s taboo, and naughty, and exciting as hell.
And you know the best part, no orgasm can match anal orgasm. But it can only happen if you already have given her pleasures of multiple orgasms. So, its a bit advanced.
For this you need a lot of trust and intimacy.
And it all begins with stimulation. Have her lie on bed and use a lube, put it on your middle finger and slide it in. Go as deep as possible. Press your fingers as hard as you can so that you go as deep as you can.
Again make sure that you’re using lube. Now, once you have reached maximum deep, then start the come hither motion. If you’re doing it right, her PC muscles will start tightening, this is an indication that she’s about to orgasm.
Do this continuously for at least a week. To train her and get her ready for the real action. Its very important that you train her if its her first time, because if you don’t prepare her, its going to pain her a lot and she wouldn’t be able to take it.
After she’s ready you first of all give her multiple orgasms. And then lead to anal. Take it slowly and always use a lube and condom.
>> Make her come back for more
If you want your woman to keep coming back to you for more and more then you must make her feel special, safe and loved even after the sex is over. You must hug her, cuddle her and care her once the sex is over. And you should make her feel like she’s your small kitten and love her like that. Trust me you would also love it, if you do it correctly.
Give your gentle pats on the back, or move your hands on her head, and whisper her how good she was, etc. For a future projection you can even create an early build – up, by telling her what you’ll do to her next time. Tell her those things in intricate details. Women love that, and she gets excited for the next time already.
Don’t abuse her, yell at her or hit her. It pisses girls away and they won’t come back again. Encourage her and let her explore new stuff. Give her freedom and let her express herself in ways she wants to. Inspire her to learn new stuffs and even teach her stuff if you’re good at it.
If you do this your girl will always be coming back for more and more with you.
Hopefully you learnt some tricks to enhance your sex skills. It’s not just about thumping. Or having a bigger penis. It’s more than that. And if you’re skilled at it then you can beat any physical specimen of men at this.
No mater how hung or strong he is, if you know the right techniques and skills, you can beat any man. Just believe in yourself and keep learning. And more than anything else, take care of your woman. They’re a prized possession of our world.