Women are complex creatures, believe it, come to peace with it and engulf it in, mannn. 

[ hey, so are you ]. The thing that women are most attracted to is what a man thinks. See this is how it goes. We are attracted to the beauty of their physical features. While they’re attracted to the beauty of our mind. You need right mindset to attract women. 

In short if you want to be amazing at dating women then you need to have the right mindset. 

It all begins from there and it all comes down to that. 

Now let’s dig deep into three mindsets and which ones are attractive and repulsive.

>> The Giver vs The Beggar 

Your beliefs dictate your behaviour. So, having a strong and healthy one is very important. 

Actually, your mental foundation is going to be the basic stone in your life foundation. 

All your actions and its reactions will be in your favor if you have a healthy mindset, that is the giver mindset. 

I know there are a lot of uncertainties in life,[ except death and taxes almost everything is uncertain ]. Old friends, new enemies, you never know. That’s why having a healthy mindset will immune you to all these petty issues. 

The giver mindset is what i preach because it means abundance. You have so much that no matter how much you give you’ll never run out of it.

Now, Let me know what would a woman want? A man of abundance or a man of scarcity, who’s afraid, timid, shy and afraid of giving because he thinks others will get better than him, if he gives. 

And if you don’t believe in my words, then you look at some of the most attractive people on this planet, they’re the most attractive not because they’re hiding stuff, or showing any scarcity signs.

They’re attractive because they’re givers. They’re like the sun. Their light shines the brightest and others [ less attractive people ] just live under the shadows created by those lights. 

If you know it, go show it, don’t be afraid, you’ll never run out of things. Cause you’re a man of abundance. 

You give more and you shall receive more. 

>> The Non – Needy vs Needy 

Attraction is one of the most primal instincts. It is triggered in our bodies in much the same way as other primal emotions, such as hunger, fatigue, and fear. It is almost habitual and in-built inside us. We can’t do anything about it. 

Heck, attraction is an emotion. And it can’t be controlled. It’s triggered. It happens from the inside. Now, when it comes to attractiveness in men, it’s about how needy he is.

If you’re a needy man then you’re unattractive and if you’re not needy, patient and living your life to the fullest  [ not in your mind, but in reality ] then you’re attractive. 

You 

need to have a life, and if you don’t have one ,then get one. By that i mean, find like minded people and hang around. Don’t lie, don’t cheat. Don’t be incongruent.

If your actions don’t match your words, that’s incongruency, which is needy. And that’s the ultimate attraction killer. Be a man of words. Women love that. 

A non needy man doesn’t lie, doesn’t cheat and is absolutely satisfied and happy in his own skin. His actions and words are as sharp as a sword. If he says it then people will believe it. 

And this increases his perception of himself and radiates positive energy out of his body, which attracts all the women towards him. 

Your neediness or the lack of it, just exudes from you in whatever you do. It defines and resonates in everything you say and do, the way you stand, the way you smile, the jokes you tell, the people you associate with, the car you drive, the wine you drink, the jacket you wear.

The girls that get attracted to you, their quality and thought process, everything. 

A man’s comfort and acceptance in who he is and how things work, and what he can do for the things to work in an even better and efficient way is attractive and exudes an un-ignorable energy from him. 

>> The Over-Invested Man vs Invested Man 

An attractive man is a born investor. He invests in people, things and tries to make them better each day, everyday. That’s his greatest quality and most attractive one. It’s his confidence in himself because of which he invests so much.

It shows no jealousy, no hatred nor any stress about other’s goodwill. Now, tell me how could a woman not want a man like this? 

In the above lines i wrote an attractive man is a born investor. Now, an over-investor is not the same as an investor. An over-investor is somebody who never believes in himself and always think there’s a lack of something inside him, and he keeps investing out of fear, of getting lost in this wild wide world.

These people are insecure in themselves and their abilities and their insecurity breeds from the fact that they’re afraid to give [ yup, over investors invest in themselves not others, for them it’s every man for himself, and then they will think why are they so poor ] 

These are the worst of people to ever meet and come in touch. These are selfish, liars and hypocrites. And they’ll use you, juice you and abuse you to get to their motive. [ hopefully you’re not this man ]

These people don’t enjoy life as they’re over invested with being jealous and scarce. They have a negative aura around them and women repel from them. 

Overtime they don’t make much friend and some who are their friends, they also get repelled because of their attitudes and behaviors. 

Additional Tips…

The Pillars of Attraction: A Mindset Manifesto

Forget the superficial. While a decent haircut and the ability to articulate a thought are never disadvantageous, genuine attraction is deeply rooted in psychological architecture. Here are the foundational pillars of a mindset that naturally attracts women, presented with a touch of levity:

Beyond the Checklist: The Nuances of Internal Charisma

Let’s be frank, dear reader. Simply ticking off these boxes won’t instantly conjure a legion of admirers. It’s about the how as much as the what.

• Authenticity isn’t about being weird for the sake of it. It’s about owning your unique brand of you. If you love collecting vintage teacups and discussing the geopolitical implications of Earl Grey, embrace it! The right woman will find that fascinating, not peculiar. The wrong approach? Pretending to love football when you’d rather be knitting. Trust us, the knitting needles tend to betray you eventually.
• Self-worth isn’t arrogance. There’s a fine line between knowing your value and being an insufferable peacock. The former is quiet confidence; the latter is a loud, desperate plea for attention. A man with genuine self-worth doesn’t need a woman to complete him; he simply enjoys sharing his well-rounded life with another compelling individual.
• Curiosity is, dare we say, sexy. Women often appreciate men who are genuinely interested in their thoughts and experiences. It shows respect and a desire for a deeper connection. The alternative? A never-ending monologue about your own accomplishments, delivered with the gravitas of a Nobel laureate accepting their prize for achieving… well, nothing particularly interesting.
• Emotional intelligence is the glue. Bottling up your feelings is about as effective as trying to hold back a tidal wave with a sieve. It leads to misunderstandings, resentment, and a general air of emotional unavailability. Being able to articulate your feelings, understand hers, and navigate emotional landscapes with grace is a superpower.
• The abundance mentality is liberating. The fear of rejection is a formidable foe. When you believe there are countless opportunities for connection, a single setback loses its sting. This isn’t about being a player; it’s about approaching interactions with a sense of possibility rather than desperation. It’s the difference between a man desperately trying to get into a club versus someone calmly surveying the vibrant scene, knowing he’ll find a good time.
• Purpose is the ultimate magnet. A man with vision, drive, and passion is undeniably attractive. It suggests ambition, resilience, and a life well-lived. When you’re engrossed in something you care about, your energy and enthusiasm become a beacon.

The Grand Finale: Mindset in Action

Ultimately, the right mindset to attract women is one of confident authenticity, genuine curiosity, emotional maturity, and a life lived with purpose. It’s about cultivating an inner world that radiates warmth, intelligence, and a delightful sense of self. Women are not looking for a perfect specimen, but a compelling human being with whom they can share laughter, dreams, and perhaps the occasional philosophical debate over a perfectly brewed cup of tea. So, ditch the pickup artist manuals, invest in your inner landscape, and let your well-cultivated mindset do the attracting. The Universe, and potentially a very interesting woman, will surely thank you.

>> CONCLUSION 

In this article i discussed a lot about being non – needy, giving as giving makes you shine like the sun. But a word of CAUTION – Stay away from people who take too much.

As they’re like vultures, they’ll only scourge you and take things away from you, as they’re programmed to only take, and not give.

These are the jealous ones, the low-life ingrates who doesn’t believe in trust, honesty, friendship and are only using you to get to some purpose.  

Most of these people are those gold diggers, who’ll move on from you as soon as they’ve taken enough and move to the man who can give her more. So, stay away from people like these.  

Choose to have a carefree, giving nurturing and a cool mindset where you know that you have a lot in life and if if you give some, you’re only going to get some. 

Comment below and let me know, on having a giver mindset, how much capacity do you have inside you to give and have you met a vulture in human form or not? 

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