Seduction is all about excitement. The biggest insight is that you have to be excited about life and then you attract women naturally. If you’re not excited about who you are and your life, then forget it. Seduce a woman when you are excited, so be excited always.
Seducing a woman is paying attention to her needs and moving forward accordingly.
It takes a bit of time and effort to develop your personality and several attractive character traits, and then to learn the necessary social skills that will help you have fun, interesting, or exciting interactions with women, and other people in general.
Seduction is creating a sexual atmosphere, while remaining fun and correct.
It is tempting the woman you pick up to get wet for you.
It is running as a lover,not as a new sexless best friend.
The idea is to grow feelings of intimacy and physical comfort. Seduction is what makes the girl see you as a potential lover.
It will provoke,stir her desire and urge her to play with you and come closer to you.
The more a girl comes closer to you and initiate contact the more readily you can accelerate your seduction.
I wrote it in my earlier article and i’ll write it again to put more emphasis.
If you can arouse emotions, then you can get any women.
And just keep reading this article you’ll get to know the importance of building an emotional connection with women in a bit, and I will give you access to my program for FREE so that you can arouse the emotion in women and get them do anything. Just keep reading. Let the value flow 😉
>> What Is Emotion?
My dictionary has a definition of emotion as “a strong mental or instinctive feeling”.
It is a disturbance of the mind. It’s the tension that you generate in other people’s head regarding yourself.
This is the ultimate seduction technique that anybody is ever going to let you know.
Create tension and release it, keep going back and forth and you’ll unleash her inner desires like no one has ever done it.
Releasing the tension is as important as creating it. Or she might FREAK out.
Suppressing her emotions will lead to the end of your relationship with her. Don’t suppress it,in fact unleash it.
Let her do whatever she wants and even accompany her for better results.
And then you’ll see the magic of this technique.
The true seducer doesn’t want to make women uncomfortable by making them do what they don’t want to do.
He only wants to intice women into doing what they already want to do, but are hiding it. He unleashes the emotions suppressed deep within them.
A successful seduction leads to intimacy – a relationship in which previously private feelings and thoughts can be openly expressed and exchanged.
As a verb, intimate means “to state or make known”.
Intimacy develops when two people seek to give each other both attention and assistance.
In giving and getting attention, they seek opportunities to increase levels of access and information.
As the amounts increase, emotional changes occur.
If these are expressed openly, the parties feelings and future intentions affect whether the exchanges will continue.
In an intimate relationship, both parties reassure ‘the other’ of their commitment by maintaining levels of attention and assistance.
Those that start to resist assistance and attention – or avoid equitable exchange – are proactively avoiding intimacy to limit the development of the relationship.
You must stand up for yourself. Set rules and boundaries and stick by them. Don’t be afraid to say “no”
Saying “no” is different from whining and complaining.
Whining and complaining is saying “no” while at the same time caving into demands.
That makes you look sorry and pathetic. Always act congruently with your words.
Never do something that you know is the wrong thing to do or change your mind just to please someone.
Don’t be a pushover.
Sure, you should always listen and take into account opinions and suggestions.
But in the end, make your own best decisions and stand up for them.
Remain true to yourself and your best judgment. That doesn’t mean you need to win every time.
But you do sometimes need to take your stand.
Because of their shyness and fear of rejection many men make the mistake of behaving as if they were not interested.
This is a huge mistake. As you have lost the girl if you are behaving like this.
She must always FEEL that you want her sexually. A good way to show your desire is to give her a REASON.
For ex – ” You are one dangerous women. I find dangerous women sexy.”
“Hmm…So you’re a naughty girl. I like it.”
Giving a reason is fundamental because you show that you like her.
But don’t make it obviously clear.Make her think about it.
Don’t reveal all your cards.Create suspense.Be mysterious.
If you wish to make a compliment,make it like a double-edged sword.
Ex- You look cute,but sadly cute girls are always boring in bed.
>> Body Language To Escalate Seduction Comfortably
A lot of guys have very easily correctable problems with their body language and tonality. By simply fixing these few problem areas, you will see a big change in how people react to you.
The most important thing when it comes to having “normal” body language is your posture.
You want to make sure that everything you do is related to lengthening and straightening your body.
When you are standing still, imagine that there is an invisible string connected to both your head and your chest yanking both of them up as high and straight as possible.
If you are a taller guy, be sure that you don’t slouch or do anything to make yourself shorter.
The person who is moving around less has more social power.
The more relaxed and comfortable you look, the better your body language will be.
Your voice is one of your most important tools when it comes to socializing.
The most important thing when it comes to your voice is speaking loudly and clearly.
You want to make sure that you speak from your diaphragm instead of your throat.
The power for your voice comes from your breathing, so it’s important to make sure that you speak on the exhale.
This alone will make you much louder.
You also want to make sure to aim your voice at least one person behind who you are speaking to, much like in martial arts where you punch through the board.
This will ensure that everyone can hear you when you’re speaking.
Most people don’t realize it, but your eyes give effect to much of what you say; and when it comes to conversation with women, your eyes can be the magic words to creating attraction.
Your eyes reflect mood, and mood is usually infective.
Eye contact conveys a lot about your level of confidence.
You want to be able to hold eye contact until the other person breaks it.
When you look down it is a sign of submission and shows a lack of confidence.
The best eye contact is the complete control of your own eyes and attention.
You will look where you want, when you want, for how long you want, unaffected by anything external, while remaining aware of social norms and influence.
External things shouldn’t affect you: wherever you’re looking, is entirely where YOU want to be looking.
You must become totally non-reactive to external things and events.
Since you will look where you truly want to look, your attention will become valuable.
Every person, male or female, will have to work harder for your attention and things will have to be better in order to gain your look.
>> The Seductive Attitude
Do you really want to get laid with all the women you could ever possibly want?
Then STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF!
Stop making excuses for wanting to meet a woman! Stop making excuses for wanting to ask a woman out.
Seductive attitude is not the words that you speak from that beautiful, sexy mouth of yours.
It’s your tone of voice, your facial expressions, your posture, the speed at which you speak, everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude.
A great deal of success and power with women has nothing to do with how you act and feel about them, but a lot to do with how you act and feel about yourself.
There is a monumental question that lies at the heart of every man’s life, and it’s simply this…
what exactly is it that women consider seductive in a man? And…
…how do I come into possession of that property?
The single most important concept that you need to be aware of in order to become masterful at the game of seduction and romance. Are you ready? Here it is:
Women are attracted to men whom they sense hold a high ranking on an invisible scale of Male Dominance —
a scale that reveals how a man has fared in competition with his fellow males in society for power,strength, wealth, prestige, etc.
Dominant males are aggressive and go after what they want.
This turns women on.
Attraction and seduction is involuntary.
It occurs on a profoundly subconscious level in both sexes.
So, how women view men?
1) Their Ranking on Male Dominance Scale
2) Attractiveness and Style
3) Interesting and Compatible Personality
1). Stylish and Appropriate Dress.
The look that you present to the world is super important to attracting women.
Clothing is a marker of male status.
2). A Normal and Harmless Personality.
One of the major worries that women have when being advanced upon by a man they’ve never seen before is determining right away whether or not he’s a psycho.
Signs of a twisted personality include things like a complete lack of any sense of humor, disheveled hair and clothes, or any kind of incoherent mumblings and stutterings.
3). A cool, relaxed flirt.
A dominant male is calm and in control.
So a passive, “got-my-shit-together” approach always beats a frantic, nervous one.
4). A guy that can Listen as well as talk.
Listening is a powerful and effective way to build the super-critical rapport between two people – without which there can be no eventual seduction.
5). A Guy who Seems to Match her Mood.
One of the cleverest ways to effect a sense of rapport with any woman is to mirror her actions and style.
If she glimpses a reflection of herself in you, it affirms her own thoughts and feelings.
6). A Man who Flatters with His Focus.
One sure way to knock any woman out of her defensive mode is to keep your attention absolutely focused on her.
7). A Man who Speaks in a Relaxed, Mysterious Voice.
Your voice is your primary instrument of seduction, so you must be certain to use it wisely.
No matter what you talk with her and what methods you use to get to her bed.
What’s crucial is what values are you going to use and whose values are you going to put more emphasis on? Yours or hers?
Yes, humans adapt. But let her adapt to you. You are a force of nature.
You’re a beast. You’re the Alpha Male. Let it be known to her.
Chances are she has never met anyone like you. Someone who can eloquently and powerfully connect what she really wants and put your values on her.
You’re a force of nature. Something she wants to jump onto.
Always be at a place where you are very comfortable being 100% yourselves.
To be able to think aloud in front of a girl.
The only way to do this is for you to become very comfortable hearing and expressing disagreeing opinions and values.
Now, if you point out the differences in your values then the values which you happen to be similar on will be all the more powerful and magical.
Let her do whatever she wants. Give her all the freedom she wants. Don’t complain when she goes out with her friends.
Smile when she says she’s going to have lunch with her old boyfriend. Encourage her to go to that male strip club. Proudly display your confidence to her.
You should welcome these types of situations and view them as OPPORTUNITIES to display your confidence to her… and to draw her closer to you.
Because being jealous in any situation won’t ever help you.
Jealousy is one of the quickest and surest ways to get dumped.
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. It indicates a lack of confidence on your part. By acting in a jealous fashion you’re essentially “telling her” that you don’t feel worthy of her love, and that you’re worried she’s going to find one of the many, many guys out there who are “better than” you. ( which is not true ).
Not to mention the fact that it’s an incredibly annoying personality trait.
Never forget that women are attracted to confidence in men.
If a woman realizes that you’re lacking in self-confidence then she’ll lose respect for you.
And if she doesn’t respect you, she CAN’T love you. And every time you act like a jealous idiot, you lose more of that respect.
Jealousy is a sign of inferiority and it’s your problem.
Ultimate success with women comes down to this: You can’t attach to them – you have to let them attach to you.
How do you do this? It’s all about your demeanor and presentation.
How you package yourself, how you carry yourself and what you choose to say or not say.
Not all women attach to the same qualities in men, but most women attach to the qualities exerted by an Alpha Male.
Some of them are –
– Acting confident in her presence
– Maintaining a positive attitude in the wake of negativity
– An attitude of success – If you’re not already a success, carrying yourself as if you know you one day will be.
– Acting upbeat and lighthearted with other people around her.Be confident and have fun with the people around the woman you’re attracted to, at the same time not seeming to pay much attention to the woman.
Be patient, knowing that all the while you’re establishing subconscious signals of
attachment with her.
Women are extremely competitive with each other, understand this, and use it to your advantage.
During the conversation with your preferred woman,you should check out other women. Preferably more sophisticated looking women,she will notice this, and she will not like it.
I want you to then make a casual remark to her about the women you are checking out. I.e. “have you ever worn a mini skirt like that before?”
Her reply shouldn’t matter to you.
Then tell her – don’t feel bad you look fine,but she’s looking like a bombshell.
This will provoke her curiosity,she will be wondering why that women is coming across sexy to you,and she is not.
To add an even more playful touch say – “You are the type of girl who would make my mother happy”.
Imply that she is more cute than erotic.
This will show her that you’re indifferent to her beauty and that you’re not like other guys. This changes the whole power dynamics.
Now you become the ‘Prize’ and she’s the one pursuing you.
The principle of push-pull is about controlling a woman’s emotion during a conversation.
If you can arouse emotions, you can get any woman.
First,you need to be nice to pull her towards you,then right after she has been pulled,demonstrate indifference which is your push.
This technique works so effectively because it confuses the woman as if you want her or not.
And as you know, it’s human nature to want what we can’t have.
And the best part is this technique creates a lot of attraction in her and makes her want your approval all the time.
Women are constantly testing us. As soon as you give in, you lose. You’ve failed the test.
You need to be in control but not controlling.
It’s your life and you should follow your own direction in life. You musn’t care what others say.
Who cares what they think.
You know what you want in your life, and you know yourself better than anyone else do.
Your life is not a democracy. You’re the ruler of your life.
And when you listen to other’s way of life and do as they tell you to you’re probably a very nice person.
But you’re not nice to yourself, you’re nice to other people. You’ve been conditioned to be a pussy.
You’ve got to be nice to you first.
Comment below and let me know “Are you nice to yourself, or not? “If not, then Why not? What’s holding you back?
So these are the fundamentals of seducing a woman and escalating to bed.
But I didn’t tell you more about Body Language Projection yet. This one little thing can 10X the process of seduction.
And what if I could show you a very strange and powerful way to attract women without you having to say anything? Is this even possible? Yes it is, that’s called BODY LANGUAGE PROJECTION. This technique short-circuits any woman’s brain and make them to like you and want to sleep with you in no time.
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