October 2


How To Make Her Orgasm Like Never Before?

By Ariel Vagus

October 2, 2019

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First of all I would like to remove this all-consuming thought out of your head: Does size matter?

Your size counts for N O T H I N G.

Sure – some women may find a bigger c*ck more visually appealing… but when it comes to giving her MIND-BLOWING pleasure and orgasms the story is completely different.

Whatever your size – you CAN make a woman orgasm.

And you can do it EASILY once you know how.

Believe it or not… more size doesn’t really help. And as you’ll see in a minute, it can even hurt your chances.

It’s not about the size, it’s about your techniques and beliefs.

Stop worrying about the size you’re your ‘tool’ and start focusing on what really matters…

So, let’s discuss “Why Orgasms?” Why do we want to give our partners orgasms so much?

1). It is a great stress-reliever. Orgasm teaches stressed people to clench and release every muscle in their body.

2). It relieves feelings of mild depression and boosts self-esteem and also makes you and your partner happy and satisfied with each other.

3). It relieves minor aches and pains, including headaches, by sending waves of endorphins which is natural painkillers throughout your body.

4). It helps make you more comfortable with and knowledgeable about your body, which makes it more likely that you will orgasm with your partner. And trust me: this will make her fall head over heels in love with you.


5). It reduces the pressure on your partner to “give” you an orgasm during lovemaking.

Now, that we have discussed some basics let’s dig a little deeper to get to “how” to give the woman you’re with orgasms every time…

>> The Right Mindset (Without It, It’s WAY Tougher to Get Her Off)…

A common sexual problem with men is their obsession with the physical. Men frequently approach becoming good in bed with a problem-solving mentality, similar to learning how to play chess.

They must make the right moves or else they’ll become a cuck and their women will leave them for someone else, blah blah blah.

Thankfully, this is far from the truth…. and it (mostly) only happens in porn.

Now, the reason why this mentality is incorrect is that it totally neglects the mindset.

Although it is harder to see and understand than the physical, it is much more important.

Mental stimulation is the most important part of sex. Mere physical stimulation is just “getting off.”

Extraordinary mental stimulation combined with basic physical stimulation is mind- blowing.

Imagine the difference between masturbating and having sex with a beautiful woman.

Give Her the BEST Lay Of Her Life: These 3 “Deep Penetration Sex Positions” Make It Happen…

That is the difference that mental stimulation makes.


It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind.

You must have healthy beliefs and mentality about sexuality, you must understand that women are highly sexual creatures. They crave intimacy. [check my article on intimacy here]

Sexuality is controlled by the subconscious mind. If there is stress or conflict in beliefs and priorities, the subconscious mind will be in conflict and your sexuality will malfunction.

Only when there is balance and harmony among all beliefs and all priorities can sexuality flourish.

You must know it and understand it that everything you need to completely fulfill a woman is already within you.And you bring her wild screaming orgasms because you command respect, you build trust, and you lead her.

make her orgasm dominance


Dominance is the foundation of all male sexual power.

The desire to be dominated by an Alpha male is one of the deepest desires of every woman.

In the absence of Dominance, there is no sexual excitement for the VAST majority of women.

Females crave Dominance and it is your job as a man to give it. This is easy to know logically; it is much harder to incorporate it into your core subconscious belief system.

Dominance is a mentality.You must internalize the beliefs that as a male you are inherently dominant, and as a female she is inherently submissive.

This is both right and natural. There shouldn’t be any other way around it.

And the flip side of this is that you must command her respect as well.

As a male you need to be at your core and grounded. Don’t ask questions, just do it.

Men have all the sexual power not women. You get to decide when it’s gonna happen or if it’s not gonna happen. Understand that you have total power of sex.

While having sex say – “This pussy is mine. I own it. I’m its owner, landlord, sheriff, etc.”

Your Dominance “Cheat Sheet”: 3 Dominant Moves In Bed That Soak Hot Girls’ Panties…

3 Dominance Triggers:

1) Move her body.

Be it from the ass or the hips or the body. Just move her.

This shows her that you’re in control. And it takes the pressure off of her to “do everything.”

It sets the stage that you’re going to do what you want in bed… and she’s going to follow you happily.

2) Choke Her.

Now obviously this is a little more advanced. And it can be a little bit dangerous if you just grab her throat and squeeze.

(Do NOT do that!)

No instead start by squeezing just the back of her neck and gauge her response.


If she moans or doesn’t stop you… you can use a little more pressure.

By far the best “how to” guide on choking during sex I’ve seen is this one.

3) Be Verbally Dominant.

Don’t tell her how much you like it.

Say how much she loves it and wants your penis.

“Yeah you like taking that big d!ck don’t you?”

“You like it when I f**k you good and hard…”

“You’re just my little slut aren’t you?”

Push her boundaries! Some girls aren’t cool with being called a “slut,” and that’s ok–she’ll let you know and then go back to happily riding your unit. Just pull back a notch if that happens.

But a lot of girls get off to being called a “slut” too! So you might send her “over the edge” just by using the word (or any number of other “taboo” words too).

>> How to Find Her “Hot Spots” That Get Her Off Instantly

Hot spots are those “magic button” places on both of your’s body.

You have them. She has them.

You know where most of yours—and her—hot spots are, but you may not be hitting them in the most effective way possible.

If you involve her hot spots during foreplay and intercourse, orgasm is more likely to happen and be more intense.

Here are the most common hot spots on women:

how to make her orgasm hot spots

Explore her hot spots and discover how she reacts to varying stimuli during oral and fingering, and then take that knowledge into lovemaking.

Hit Her “Hidden Hot Spot”: 3 “Deep Penetration” Sex Positions That Make It Happen

>> Intense Foreplay That Soaks Her Panties…

You must first seduce your lover’s mind. Seduction, in fact, is largely a mind game.

People who play it well know how to make us feel interesting and desirable.

They know how to make eye contact and when to drop the gaze. [ read my article on seduction here ]

Make her look into those big beautiful eyes of yours and let her see the promise of erotic fulfillment. 

Whether you just met her or have been married to her for twenty years, your eyes convey something else along with passionate interest: a strong sense of your inviolate self and your passion for her.

A truly seductive person is the man she cannot own.

Some elements of foreplay include:

  • Building on the sexual tension created by holding, touching, and caressing
  • Whisper in her ears for naughty talk
  • Kissing
  • Sensual body stroking
  • Erotic massage
  • Manual genital play
  • Oral sex

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>> My Step-By-Step Foreplay System That Makes Her Uncontrollably Horny For You…

Before you do anything else, take her face in your hands, kiss her eyelids, and with one hand still holding her face, stroke her cheeks and forehead with your thumb.

Tell her how much you love her or are passionate about her. How you’re going to blow her mind and all that.

Basically give her a small vision of what’s going to happen in the immediate future.

Massage her breasts with your palms.

Again say some encouraging as well as naughty words.

If you want you can be a challenge as well–tease her a little bit. Give… and then pull back.

Glide your hand, with the first two fingers open in a V, up each of her breasts, catching her nipple in the V. Now kiss that nipple. Suck onto them well.

Take her nipple gently between two fingers and pinch. Do this until she moans a bit.

Caress her inner thighs from her knees up. Let your thumb or fingers graze her vulva as you reach the top of her thighs. Do this while kissing her.

Don’t forget to caress her back and shoulders, legs and belly, and all the parts of her. Don’t make the mistake of just focusing on her sexual organs.

Use light circular motions with your fingertips on her genital area. Use your fingers to make long strokes on the outside lips.

Then curve one or two fingers and use the space between the knuckle and joint to massage lightly her inner and outer lips in a back-and-forth motion. Massage her labia and work back to her anus. Rotate your thumb in a round motion around the anus.

Rotate your fingers around her clitoris, alternating a clockwise and anti-clockwise motion. Stroke down with one finger on either side of her clitoris. Rotate. Stroke down. And suck onto the clitoris as well.It gives them immense pleasure.

Add the G-spot stroke.

Insert a finger or two into her vagina and massage her G-spot.

Now circle your fingertip rapidly around her clitoris as you’re massaging her G-spot. Don’t be surprised if she squirts during this orgasm.

Now, sometimes what happens is no matter what we do we have lost our erection for some time. In these cases i urge you not to be worried.It’s perfectly normal.And now read some of my tips during these cases.

>> What To Do When You Lose Your Erection During Intercourse?

Turn your attention to her.

Kiss, caress, stroke, and fondle her—even bring her to orgasm.

Go back to cunnilingus. Let your tongue take over for your penis. You’ll probably have an erection after that.

Tell her to give you a hand job.

Rub your penis with lube until you are hard.

Rub your dick on her pussy

Have her give you a blowjob.

If all else fails… I’d highly recommend this foolproof method to get and stay hard (from a 73-Year-Old Male Pornstar who still bangs hot 20-something chicks)

>> Oral Sex

Oral sex is both foreplay and a sex act unto itself if you continue until your lover has an orgasm. Most of the time, you want to tease her pussy before you begin to eat it.

Tease her by breathing on her pussy, kissing it, and licking it softly with the tip of your tongue.

When she’s reached the breaking point for teasing, put your tongue into her pussy. I find this works better if you push the girl’s legs back above her head like the Jackhammer position this way you can thrust your tongue in deeper.

Thrust inside her vagina for a few seconds with your tongue – this is the type of thing which feels good, but doesn’t produce an orgasm. Do this for a little while, and then start licking the clit.

Use plenty of saliva – it’s better physically for her because it provides more lubrication, and it’s better psychologically for her because it gives her the feeling of being dripping wet, which she associates mentally with being extremely turned on.

Men often bring women to orgasm via cunnilingus before moving on to intercourse.

how to make her orgasm oral sex>> Cunnilingus

Step #1:

After you have kissed, stroked, and fondled the rest of her body to the point where she is very aroused, get into a position comfortable for both of you, it’s important that you make yourself and her extremely comfortable.

She may lean against pillows either with her legs open, knees bent and feet flat, or with her legs outstretched and open, forming a V.

You can lie or kneel between her legs or come in from the side and wrap her leg around your shoulders. Or she can straddle your face and lower her clitoris to your mouth.

Step #2:

Gently part her labia. Holding her lips open, lift the clitoral hood. If her clitoris is well back inside the hood—an “innie”—gently run your fingers along the side of the hood to expose the clitoris.You may also spit on it to make it wet and get it to open up quickly.

Step #3:

Lick the delicate tissue along the sides and above and below her clitoris in long, broad, gentle strokes of the tongue. Make some noises and moan while you’re doing it.

Step #4:

Experiment with your tongue strokes, paying close attention to her responses. She will let you know how much pressure she wants.Some examples are- The Hurricane , the twister, etc… Do this according to her reactions.

Step #5:

Put your lips around the sides of her clitoris. Hold them in a pursed position as you gently suck. Alternate the sucking with licking of the surrounding tissues.

Step #6:

If she likes direct stimulation of the clitoris— some women do, some don’t—lick and suck it.

Step #7:

Cover the clitoral shaft area with your mouth. Suck gently around the sides of her clitoris. Stimulate her labia with your hand or stroke her inner thighs, tease her nipples, or alternate manual stimulation.

Don’t move your mouth from her clitoris ever, if she wants to reach orgasm. This makes her feel bad and unloved.

>> Talking Dirty

Even when you’re not talking dirty, it is important that you be vocal during sex. Being vocal gives you more sexual pleasure.

Don’t be afraid to let out passionate noises in bed. Remove your inhibitions and you will find that once you do, you’ll naturally want to moan and roar.

The tonality that you use when you’re talking dirty is very important.It should be deep and dominant.

Ask her “do you want to get fucked?” She’ll be hesitant to say yes,but after you tease her enough eventually she will.

When she does, put the head of your penis inside her to reward her. Tell her “Alright…but I don’t think you can take it all in.I’ll give you just a little bit.”

If she has had good sex with you before, she’ll think that she can handle it all, and probably try to shove it inside her.

Don’t let her – progress slowly, and if possibly push backwards a bit and go an inch or half inch deeper only as a reward for her begging for it.When you’ve almost penetrated her fully, suddenly withdraw your cock all the way from her. Hold it right against the entrance to her pussy, and tell her “I don’t know about this…you’re only a little girl, I don’t think you can take all of it inside you.”

If you’ve done it right, at this point, she’ll start crying and begging you to fuck her. Let her do this for a few seconds, then plunge your penis inside her all at once. Because she had such strong emotions, it will feel incredible for her. Fvck her hard, and she should cum very soon.

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The FINAL Step To Give Her a Wild, “Deep Spot” Orgasm (She’s Probably Never Had Before)…

All of the above tips are “tools” you’ll have in your toolbox to get a hot girl off.

There is one final tool that works every time… and often gives women “the most powerful orgasms they’ve ever felt”:

Penetrate Her DEEPLY.

This is often why women say they “like big dicks.” It’s not that they like the actual “big dick”…

…but rather the feeling of “fullness” they get from being penetrated so deeply.

That’s because there’s a “secret spot” deep inside of a woman… known as the “A-Spot” or “Deep Spot.”

This spot is 3 inches behind her G-Spot… and it gives women the most intense orgasms ever.

Until recently, that’s why guys with huge dongs had an advantage… they could hit this spot occasionally without even trying.

But now after researching positions from the top sex gurus… medical journals… and even the Kama Sutra…

I’ve discovered 3 “Deep Penetration Sex Positions” For Guys With Small Penises.

These work really well to hit her “Deep Spot” consistently… and once you do… she won’t be able to stop f**king you.

Seriously–I’ve tried these on hot girls and they get hooked. Blowing up your phone at weird hours… straight up asking to “come over for that magic d**k”…

I’m not “big” by any means… but these girls would swear I’m hung like Lex Steele since I f**k them so deep.

Here’s what these positions are… plus how to hit her “Deep Spot” every time you f**k her… and take her to new heights of pleasure she’s never experienced before:

3 “Deep Penetration Sex Positions” For Guys With Average (or Smaller) Units

[This post was last updated by Your Alpha Dude on August 4, 2020)


Ariel Vagus

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  • Thanks for the insight on this very important topic on sex.

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  • Ahimbisibwe onesmas says:

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  • My name is Johan..I always use to lick and suck my wife while playing with her anus..all of a sudden she avoid me come near her pussy with my mouth..she beliefs it is wrong

  • ThatOneGuy73 says:

    This will most definitely probably save my marriage. Thank you.

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